I’ve spent the past couple of days visiting with my parents. The place where they live these days is not one of the many homes I grew up in. It has become somewhat familiar over the past 14 years, but truthfully I have not visited here as much as I should have. I’ve met up with my parents in another of other places, usually with lots of other people around.
This time I had them all to myself.
There was a lot of show and tell, mostly because my parents are avid travelers these days. So there were hours of hearing lots of stories, showing of souvenirs, flipping through amazing photos of exotic and not-so-exotic locales. We ate a lot of food. We drove around in their golf cart. My mom and I spent a couple hours at the pool. We just hung out.
But one of the other things that I did was go through a big box of stuff that my mom tells me that I wanted to save so she’s moved it several times. And at this point, she wants it out of the garage. (She also offered me some vintage Daisy covered 1960s outdoor cups, a matching ice bucket, and a matching pitcher that she had in the garage. She’ll ship them to me.)
By the way, I had no recollection of this box or putting things into this tattered box.
I put off digging through it until after dinner tonight because there was so much reading involved. You see, in amongst certificates earned for playing the piano, programs for long ago violin concerts, science fair programs, attendance and field day certificates, a couple of sweet love letters from a very articulate high school boyfriend, a few pieces of jewelry, 80s LPs, some trinkets from my grandparents’ vacations, and a bit of random proof that at one time in my life I could do math, I found many reasons why there was no other life’s work meant for me besides writing (well, maybe except for farming, but I consider that a Plan B career possibility).
The box was crammed full of paper. But what was obviously important to me were the words on the piles of paper (and the grades earned).
So tonight I:
-read a completely incoherent “story” that I wrote and illustrated in kindergarten.
-found countless book reports and essays marked with neat A+ grades, some with the occasional comment in red about my atrocious spelling.
-saw how I could put together very technical hand drawn graphs, charts, maps, and handwritten copy and make a lovely presentation.
-enjoyed a “book” I titled Absurdities which had bizarre drawings of things like a four-legged woman and a pink cat and crazy descriptions that made me wonder if my teachers in the 1970s were feeding us kids mind altering substances.
-continued to see a pattern with poor spelling and frustrated teachers who wanted to give me a lower grade for my sloppiness, but couldn’t because they were amused by the work (and the drawings).
-laughed at heartfelt (but horrible) attempts at poetry, elementary school journalism, and even 4th grade marketing.
-chuckled at a couple of “memoirs” that date back to high school days.
But one thing was clear as I flipped through these ancient relics of my childhood, I loved to write. And I found my voice, my life’s work, and my joy at an early age, but didn’t know it. I am so lucky to have these gifts—and to have had them with me for such a long time. I must never forget that they’ve been a part of me since practically the very beginning — and kindergarten was oh so very long ago. And I can rest easy knowing that spelling has always been an issue for me. I am not losing that gift. I never had it!
I’m trying hard not to be a packrat (I’ve already gone through many “treasures” from high school and college and whittled them down to a very few pieces that are stashed in my closet at home.) While most of this crumbling debris is destined for the recycling bin in the morning, some of it is coming back to Dallas with me as a not-so-subtle reminder that no matter what, writing is what I’m meant to do.
Today’s gratuitous dog photo features the boys:
See you were always mean to be a writer. It’s great that your mom kept those things for you to remind you of the past. Wish I kept things like that.
We had a big laugh over the randomness of the stuff. And over my earnestness in all of my writing. My verbosity and inflated vocabulary too. It was a good time. But I whittled the pile down to a few interesting things that I wanted to keep. Mom was happy to get the box out of the garage and will deliver the Bobsey Twins and Nancy Drew books to her granddaughters when they get older (and can read!). Makes me happy that three more little girls will enjoy my old books (some of them were also my mom’s books).
George is not going to let you out of his sight. Love the ice bucket and tumbler set. It’s cool you got a chance to reconnect to the younger you and revisit all those memories. I love going through old stuff like that. Sounds like you had a great time.
It was a great time. I’m thinking that George would like to be my service dog so he can accompany me on all my adventures.
:). George is sweet and loving. And I’m sure you’re right. He’d love that. Safe home.
I still have a few of my old school books at my parents’: they make interesting reading every now and then!
I have some bits and pieces in a box–and all my old report cards too. But I try not to be a packrat. I can visit my books when I visit young family members!